By many/most measures I’d say 2013 was better than 2012 for me, except obviously for the highlight of 2012 when Andy and I had our commitment ceremony. But aside from that I took whatever I had learned through some tougher times in 2012 and (mostly) applied it and it all worked out pretty great. A great year really, and I know I have a lot to be thankful for. And a huge amount to look forward to. And there are some interesting questions for Andy and me to ask ourselves in the New Year about what this year will be.
As for some highlights…
Starting 2013 in Esperance, Western Australia and driving back to Melbourne. An unforgettable experience, and, while I know we’re not campers at heart, Andy and I have found a shared loved of the open road. Driving the Nullabor is something every Australian should do once in their life.
Our Easter trip to Hobart, which is gorgeous and reminds me of Albany in WA. The Museum of Old and New Art (MONA) is unbelievable and a place I’ll be returning to. The building and grounds themselves are such achievements and the collection is exciting and pulls no punches. A place that had a real impact on me.
Making it through a tough time and coming out unscathed. I must be learning…
Starting a new job and appreciating the new opportunities it opens up. And re-prioritising the role that work plays in my life. And having fun at work.
My 30th birthday in America organised by Andrew with my beautiful friends Sally and Matt and Matt. Driving Boston to Chicago. The general mad-ness of the United States – a country at a crossroads. I can’t wait to visit you again soon.
Finding a love of art again – galleries in Boston and Chicago and New York, and of course MONA and becoming a member of the National Gallery of Victoria.
Weddings! Devon and Andrew in Byron Bay, NSW and Kate and Wayne here in Melbourne. Plus, the first same-sex marriages that took place in Australia which were subsequently made invalid after 5 days. An important step forward for Australia regardless.
Being more focused about my own health and fitness and discovering the confidence that this gives me and the positive effects on the rest of my life.
And finally making it through the whole year without a single cigarette! I can’t think of a better present to myself.
And then we have the 500. Looking back over the year there’s some real gems and some real dogs, and some that I’ll keep listening to forever. Shit, actually looking back I’ve heard a lot – think about what I’ve got to look forward to!
As for what I’ve listened to otherwise this year…
One Direction (again), ‘Take Me Home’ and ‘Midnight Memories’
Scoffed at, for sure, but these lads are hard working and the songs are super catchy (and some are really good), and their vocals are great. Music doesn’t need to be serious all the time and so here we are.
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The National, ‘Trouble Will Find Me’
A band I had been meaning to listen to for a while, I’ve picked up this album as well as their previous ‘High Violet’. Moody, wordy, complex and dense (what DO some of these songs mean??): serious and seriously beautiful music.
Lorde, ‘The Love Club EP’
Lyrically a bit like Lana Del Rey’s counterpoint, Lorde came out of nowhere and made 2013 her own. Pretty impressive for a Kiwi teenager. Maturely made, but with oh-so-teen themes of popularity and hanging-out and beauty queens, this was a really killer EP. I haven’t got to her studio release ‘Pure Heroine’ but am predicting that’ll be on this list next year..
Lana Del Rey (again), ‘Paradise’
I think technically released at the end of 2012, Del Rey was again on high-rotation throughout 2013. Again, I love her combination of old school glamour and new school swagger, and her music is sexy and dark and violent. A beautiful tragedy. The extended video of “Ride” is something to behold. A proper artist.